Two Best Friends

Lena and Rae

Lena Rose x 9

Nine times the cuteness! Who could choose just one?

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Easter 2013

This year, we celebrated the annual turning of spring with a little egg hunting in the morning (loot included: yogurt melts, buttons, fuzzy worms, and misc SXSW booth swag giveaways (who knew the Easter Bunny was a nerd?) Then we had brunch with close family and relaxed in the garden.

Happy Easter/Vernal Equinox/Beltane!

Easter basket goodies

Lena Rose

Found one

Finding eggs is fun

Enjoying loot with Aunt Eve

Lena Rose

Time to play!

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Lena's First Haircut

Just in time for Lena's appearance in Owen and Eve's wedding next week, Lena got her first haircut!

We choose a salon here in Austin that specializes in kids cuts. It was a very stimulating place with lots of toys and videos and other distractions to keep the kids happy. Lena got the special "first haircut" package with a certificate and photo. After the cut, kids get to drop a card in the machine to get a prize. Well, Lena was on to that in about 2 minutes, needless to say! And she kept trying to steal the other kids toys whenever the machine spun up. She was very happy and patient the entire time. I'm so proud of my BIG girl!

Lena needs a haircut!

Sitting in the chair

Yeah, I could get used to this

Final result, complete with green bow, glitter, and strawberry smelly spray. What a treat!

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New Videos!

Sorry we've been dark for a while. Catch ups to come--starting with these new videos!

Bubbles at Brandifers

Catch up! Apologies in advance for the back-dated post.

Here are some photos of Rae and Lena from Julia's B-day party at Brandifer's last month. Rae loved her Hello Kitty bubble maker and Lena (finally) tasted chocolate cake! Links to videos of the chocolate-cake eating in the album.

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2013-03-02PartyatBrandifers

Toddlers and Emotions

Ms. Liz did some fantastic research this weekend, regarding toddlers and emotions. (Thanks, Liz!) Here are some of her findings:

First, check out this article by Heather Turgeon called Why Kids Have Temper Tantrums | Babble

About half-way down, you can read her explanation of how toddler brains develop. I was surprised to learn that her brain is already starting the process of "pruning" unused connections and that this "pruning" is actually the "heavy lifting" of developing emotional maturity.

This second article Teaching Toddlers About Emotions - Parenting.com  by Rita T. Wallace has some more practical advice, including these 3 tips:

1. Name emotions seen in others
2. Name her emotions as she feels them
3. Name your own emotions to her

Words are important, and children listen, so putting words to the feelings she is having is an important developmental step.

I realize that this doesn't just apply to toddlers, of course. In fact, I have recently been studying the concept of Emotional Intelligence, as it applies to developing my own interpersonal and professional relationships. Clearly, these principles apply as well! If I can teach Lena to recognize her own emotions and not be hijacked by them, she will be able to use those skills for the rest of her life!

Perhaps by helping my daughter through this learning process of her own emotions, I will be able to better understand and acknowledge my own and become a better person through her.

Now, will somebody please remind me I said that next time we throw a tantrum in the grocery store? Ha!

Love always, 

Mama